25 Awesome Quotes- The language of letting go

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By Mystique1957

Having firsthand experience qualifies you to elaborate on a subject more accurately. Why? Because you have suffered the pain and the ecstasy, you have ached, cried, laughed and enjoyed in your own skin. I decided to write this unusual hub (Unusual for me since it isn´t my typical style), because I am undergoing a very painful experience at the moment (My Granny suffered a stroke yesterday and she cannot speak, cannot swallow or chew)


Nevertheless, that has not prevented me from focusing on the bright side of things, though I confess it hasn´t been easy. When you allow your human side to take control of situations you are in for painful moments. Whether it is pleasant and indulging or not is beside the point. Involving your emotions in life´s important and relevant decisions will cause you to suffer.


What does it mean? It means relevant decisions have to be made with a cool head and a calm heart. How can you decide in a situation like mine? Well, let me put it this way: My Grandma is 95 years old, but she´s spent the last 11 months in a clinical bed. She cannot move and everything has to be done for her. My mom and Sis have been her “nurses” but they are tired and so is granny.


So, what has been my view on the subject? Granny would be better off in God´s hands than where she is now, that is what yesterday´s stroke told me. She´s even more handicapped now. That means that an attached emotion of wanting her to stick around longer would make her suffer more and as a result we would have to endure deeper pain.

I have decided to share this with you so that you can understand what has motivated me to find these quotes.

Thank you for listening! I appreciate your love and support,

Warmest hugs and infinite heavenly blessings,

I LOVE YOU ALL,

Al

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The Quotes...

On Living...


  • “To see a world in a grain of sand and a heaven in a wild flower, hold infinite in the palm of your hand and eternity in an hour” William Blake


  • “When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us” Hellen Keller


  • “Now is not the time to think of what you do not have. Think of what you can do with what there is” Ernest Hemingway-The Old Man and the Sea


  • “The Light shines in the darkness and the darkness has not overcome it” John 1:5


  • “Love is the only thing we can carry with us when we go” Louisa Mary Alcott-Little Women


  • “Love is most nearly itself, when here and now cease to matter” T.S.Elliot


  • “Hope means that at the end I will not be rejected” Elisabeth Kübler-Ross


  • “I don´t ask for your pity, but your understanding-no, not even that, no. Just your recognition of me in you…” Tennessee Williams


  • “If I can stop one heart from breaking, I shall not live in vain. If I can ease one life the aching, or cool one pain, or help one fainting robin unto his nest, I shall not live in vain” Emily Dickinson







On Living...

Are you prepared to let go, to live and to die?

  • Yes, I am. I´ve thought about this for a long time
  • No, I guess I´m a bit attached to this life
  • To let go, to live? Yes! To die? No!
  • Dying isn´t easy to accept, but I am preparing for when it comes
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The Quotes...


On Dying...


  • “What´s life? It is the flash of a firefly in the night. It is the breath of a buffalo in the winter time. It is the little shadow which runs across the grass and loses itself in the sunset” CROWFOOT´s dying words(Canadian Indian)


  • “Sorrow is like a precious treasure, shown only to friends” African Proverb


  • “I found out that no one is ever prepared for death and that grief has nothing to do with intelligence” Dr. Roberta Temes


  • “Death is clearly no failure” Barbara Genest



  • “We have finished our years like a sigh… So teach us to number our days, that we may present to Thee a heart of wisdom” Psalm 90:9,12


  • “When a person is born we rejoice, and when they are married we jubilate, but when they die we try to pretend nothing has happened” Margaret Mead


  • “Go, go, go, said the bird: human kind cannot bear very much reality” T.S.Elliot


  • “When a man is dying his words are worth listening to” Tseng Tzu

On Dying...

The Quotes...

On Letting go...


  • “We must kick the darkness ´till it bleeds daylight” Bruce Cochburn


  • “The heart of the wise is in the house of the mourning” Ecclesiastes 7:14


  • “There is no birth of consciousness without pain” Carl Jung


  • “I do not believe that sheer suffering teaches. If suffering alone taught, all the world would be wise since everyone suffers. To suffering must be added mourning, understanding, patience, love, openness and willingness to remain vulnerable” Anne Morrow Lindbergh


  • “Life begins on the other side of despair” Jean-Paul Sartre


  • “I do not recall the time when I was not conscious of a hunger for something beyond the physical and the material” Mary Sue Tynes Lundy


  • “Faith is to believe what we do not see, and the reward of this faith is to see what we believe” ST. Augustine


  • “Living fully requires teamwork, when we learn to be and let go, we leave the victory in the hands of our best player: God” Dragon Wizard

On Letting go

I sincerely hope these quotes help every one of you my brothers and sisters to cope with the inevitable, which in the end is in our best interest and for our best benefit for it is the way of God, and the ways of God are not the ways of men...

Be ever Blessed,

Al

Copyright ©Mystique®2010

Copyright ©Alberto J. Alvarez. G®2010




Comments

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Darlene Sabella 23 months ago

Very lovely and I am very sorry about your Granny, send you love and prayers. I hope you find time to read a few of mine. Have a great Sunday...

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Mystique1957 Hub Author 23 months ago

My dear Darski...

Thank you a whole lot, dear sister! I appreciate your warm words. Heading your way...

Warmest hugs and infinite heavenly blessings,

Al

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Petra Vlah Level 3 Commenter 23 months ago

Your love for your grandmother is part of the infinite love you have for mankind. True love is to know when it is time to let go and celebrate the memories we have. God may give you sthrenght and courage, you have our love and prayers. Che Dio benedica tua nonna e la tenga in sua grazia

Moreshanti 23 months ago

Dear Al,

Beautiful post. My heart and soul is with you and your mom and sister (and rest of the family.) I pray that she finds her way to peace and rest sooner rather than later. I could say much more but.. you know.

I love you all very much. Muchas bendiciones.

More?

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equealla 23 months ago

For once, I have no words. I sit in a quite corner and cry with you.....

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JannyC 23 months ago

Truly beautiful and wise. Great share for a lot of people to think on.

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Elle Woods 23 months ago

I am sorry that you have had to experience painful feelings associated with the stroke of your grandmother. As a nurse I have looked after many people like your grandmother. The one thing you can take from this expereince is "How can I make life better fro her and What can I learn from this?" It used to upset me when people thought just because she had a stroke that she could'nt think for herself. It must be horrible to have no control over your life and feel trapped in your body.

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Rebecca E. 23 months ago

hello my dear-- so wise and so powerful, these qutoes are timeless and I know you will draw strenghth from them. My thoughts are with you.

as always.

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prasetio30 Level 8 Commenter 23 months ago

Good work, my friend. You always come up with something beautiful and share your passion in love or life. I have to admit to you, this was so great. I'll copy some of this quotes. Because I fall in love with a woman in my city. He's so attractive. I'll send this quotes through short messaging from mobile phone. I think she'll love this very much. Just for motivation. Thanks you very much. For appreciation. I vote this Up.

Warm regard and Blessing.

Prasetio

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ExpandYourMind 23 months ago

Beautiful and thought provoking. My prayers are with you and yours . . .

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prettydarkhorse Level 2 Commenter 22 months ago

beautiful is all I can say, Maita

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Mystique1957 Hub Author 22 months ago

Thank you, honey bunch!

You are a very special person, you know that?

Thank you for being here and being my kaibigan!

Salamat Talaga!

Warmest hugs and infinite heavenly blessings,

Al

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Mystique1957 Hub Author 22 months ago

Thank you,mia carissima Petra

Thank you for your support and friendship!

I truly cherish them!

Warmest hugs and infinite heavenly blessings,

Al

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Mystique1957 Hub Author 22 months ago

My dearest Sister...

Thank you for being around always! You know I carry you in my heart, Moreshanti. Our father make sure of that...

Take care, darling!

Warmest hugs and infinite heavenly blessings,

your brother,

Al

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Mystique1957 Hub Author 22 months ago

My liefste Francis, jy is 'n ware seën! Ek het jou baie lief, soet suster! Ek dank u uit my siel

Warmste drukkies en oneindige hemelse seëninge,

Al

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Mystique1957 Hub Author 22 months ago

Janny, dear! Thanks for your words and support! That was very thoughtful of you!

Warmest hugs and infinite heavenly blessings,

Al

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Mystique1957 Hub Author 22 months ago

Elle...

Thank you! Thank you for your warm words and advice!

Warmest hugs and infinite heavenly blessings,

Al

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Mystique1957 Hub Author 22 months ago

My Love...

I know I can count on you! Thank you for being supportive and sweet with me. I love You...

Warmest hugs, a zillion kisses, lots of love and light and infinite heavenly blessings,

Your sunshine,

Al

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Mystique1957 Hub Author 22 months ago

My Brother Prasetio...

Thank you for your support and being in my hubs, dear friend! You are my true brother!

Warmest hugs and infinite heavenly blessings,

Al

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Mystique1957 Hub Author 22 months ago

ExpandYourMind...

Thanks a whole lot! I appreciate your kindness and warmth!

Warmest hugs and infinite heavenly blessings,

Al

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tonymac04 22 months ago

My geliefde broer Al - ek wens jou alle seeninge toe! Jou barmhartigheid en goedgesindheid is van groot betekenis vir my.

I have learned just yesterday that my mother in law has cancer. I wrote about it in a recent Hub. I can only try to empathise with you and wish you strength and peace, my brother!

BTW the quote about seeing the "world in a grain of sand" is from William Blake, not William Barclay. It comes from Blake's poem "Auguries of Innocence":

To see a world in a grain of sand,

And a heaven in a wild flower,

Hold infinity in the palm of your hand,

And eternity in an hour.

It's a beautiful poem which you could find here: http://www.artofeurope.com/blake/bla3.htm

Thanks for this wonderful Hub and the richest of blessing, my brother.

Love and peace

Tony

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Mystique1957 Hub Author 22 months ago

Dankie, my geliefde broer, Tony! Ek waardeer jou kommentaar en koester jou vriendskap baie, baie dankie! I am sorry to hear that about your mother-in-law, dearest brother. Let´s pray she can go through it without much pain and suffering and that Caitlin does not have to hurt in the process.Kinders kan nie verstaan die kompleksiteit van die dood en skeiding. Thank you for the tip on Blake. I have corrected it! Be blessed, my dearest brother! Thank you for stopping by!

Warmste drukkies en oneindige hemelse seëninge,

Al

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Shil1978 Level 4 Commenter 22 months ago

Dearest Al,

Sorry to hear about your grandma!! Perhaps, it is a coincidence that I've been remembering (for the last few days) my grandma who passed away 2 years ago. It happened all of a sudden and it was a deeply hurtful phase. Needless to say, I still miss her so much and regret not being able to be at her bedside when she moved on! She lived a full life though and so now I look at her moving on in a positive way!!

I would pray that God gives you and your mom and sis the strength to cope with this phase. That your grandma has lived up to 95 means she's probably lived her life to the fullest!!

I like that you have sought to focus on the brighter side, difficult though it might seem!! That's the best way to approach a situation such as this. I read somewhere that "whatever happens, happens for the best." This might seem like a ridiculous statement in most trying situations, but I've always found it to be true.

Would hope and pray that your grandma has a comfortable, pain-free course ahead. That's the best we can pray and hope for!!

Thank you Al for sharing this hub!!

Warm regards,

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TheMMAZone 22 months ago

This is a great collection of quotes. I had forgotten a couple of these!

Thanks for writing this hub!

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Joshua Kell 22 months ago

My dear friend Al. I am broken hearted for your family, and yourself. I am sorry your Grand Mother has to go through all of this. I know you are a deep and strong man; and you shall hold it all together. What can one do in such a situation? Except pray... I shall be praying for your Granny, you, and your family. I very much hope that things get better. With great hope and love. - Joshua.

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Gift Experts 22 months ago

Neat ties-ins with your videos! GOod work here.

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Lita C. Malicdem Level 4 Commenter 22 months ago

I had experienced the same pain you now have. My father died in my arms on our way to the hospital due to heart stroke. My husband died on the same bed with me after 9 months of struggle with cancer. A nephew was taken away from us and lately, his father, who is my brother, fell into coma and died due to complications of diabetes.

Yes, we all know in theory how to let go, but it's painful and utterly devastating when the moment comes. I'll pray for your grandma and your whole family. God is watching over you!

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Lightuponlight 21 months ago

Beautiful is all I can say too! I love the Quotes! Great hub! Wonderful! Thanks for sharing!

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Mystique1957 Hub Author 19 months ago

My dearest Shil...

Thank you dearest friend for your presence in my hubs. I know I´ve been gone for quite a while. I´ve been battered a lot, but that´s part of the training and I chose this path. I just pray The Great Architect´s hand doesn´t leave me stranded...

Good to be back!

Warmest hugs and infinite heavenly blessings,

Al

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Mystique1957 Hub Author 19 months ago

TheMMAZone...

Thank you Bro! I´m glad it helped you somehow

Thanks for being there!

Warmest hugs and infinite heavenly blessings,

Al

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kims3003 Level 2 Commenter 15 months ago

very heartwarming - excellent writing when the words stir up emotions in your readers. You have a pleasant writing style. It is very easy to feel your genuineness and compassion in your writing - this is not easy for everyone to do - it is usually something that is god given and not something you learn so much - you sure have it. Beautiful work

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Mystique1957 Hub Author 10 months ago

My dearest Kims3003...

It´s taken me this long to come back to write. That´s why I am replying to your comment at this time. Ever since Granny died and 3 months later, my mother died too.

I´m up and running though for God hasn't forsaken me nor he will...

Thank you for your kind words,

warmest hugs and infinite heavenly blessings,

Al

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