Love goes beyond the infinity- Do you really know what Love is ?

After having remained behind scenes for a bit more than a week, I have finally centered myself and I am back on my feet. During my inner voyage I entered the Temple called Beautiful and I have joined with my God within. 1 Corinthians 3:16 :  Do you not know that  you are a temple of God and that the Spirit of God  dwells in you?

Sometimes, it is hard to accept that Our Heavenly Father writes straight with crooked lines. In other words, an apparently terrible situation will certainly have an immense hidden blessing. It is up to you to determine how you would look at the situation and either find the blessing or wallow in self-pity.

In the end, the latter will not bear a sweet fruit. It isn´t easy, I know! I have just come out of a similar situation and I needed to experiment some kind of pain and sadness to realize I was looking at it the wrong way.  Love, true Love was the answer. It always is…

My wonderful and beautiful brothers and sisters, do not be deceived by the human conceptualization of what love is, for that represents a vague and poor definition of the true meaning of love. To be able to reflect in the flesh, in a situation or in a relationship, true and pure love, you must experience it within.

If you fail to do so, you shall suffer endless disillusions until you have learned the lesson. It doesn´t mean you cannot have a partner or a couple or a wife/husband. On the contrary, you must start within yourself, project it outwardly and team up with your partner to radiate it out to the world.

When you base your love exclusively in the senses, the most important essence of love is not experimented, and there is a profound hollow within you. Nothing can compare to the bliss felt when love pours inside out. When that miracle occurs, hatred, jealousy, selfishness, greed and any other negative human emotion, disappear!

I mean it! They just vanish like magic. How is that possible, you may ask? It is possible because when love pours freely from within, God is in action through you. His understanding, his wonders, his blessings are becoming alive, teeming with light and joy.

Isn´t it what you have always wanted? Ask yourself that question and breathe for about 5 minutes with your eyes closed, in total relaxation and silence. The answer will come to you sooner than you expect it!

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So how can we define real love? Love is never selfish, but selfless. Any selfish love is physical love only. It is possessive, unconsidered and it aims somehow at self-satisfaction. I can hear the screams! Yes, I can. You probably think:”How dare he judge my way of loving?”

My brothers and sisters, I am not judging you. I am speaking from experience. You have to let your significant other be him/herself. If a person must change his/her personality in order to make a relationship work, believe me; that relationship is doomed.

Possessiveness equals attachment, attachment equals suffering. When you get attached to someone or something, you are bound to suffer. If you lose that person, you suffer. If you feel jealousy, you suffer. If something you cherish very much is stolen or lost you suffer.

Can´t you see? It is not the spiritual view that makes you suffer, it´s your human view, your ego, clinging to a temporary relationship or object. The only thing that´s eternal is the essence of God.

The essence of God dwells within you. I know it isn´t easy to see things under the spiritual eye, but that is the only permanent asset human beings have. The rest is perishable, temporary, ephemeral.

Notwithstanding, when you learn to practice selfless love, everything falls into place. You´ll either improve your current relationship or end it, but you´ll be certain of your course of action. That will open another door for the right person to come into your life.

If you feel you can´t let go of somebody, make no mistake: your ego, your human self is in charge. There will not be good things coming your way if you do not subdue your human mind. Detachment can be painful,

to the human ego, not to the spirit.

The spirit is that which truly expresses our essence. It is through the spirit´s selfless love that you attract a Lifetime relationship and not a reason or a season type of relationship. Pain can be avoided when you open your heart and give, give and go on giving love to everyone.

It is in that instant, that your soulmate, your true love will show up, and you will both know. There´s a very unique feeling that goes beyond distance, cultural boundaries and physical love, and it comes only when you learn to let go.

A few reminders worth pointing out:

·       Love isn´t physical. The physical is the vessel, but love is born within your spirit self

·       Be and let be. If you have an urge to change somebody against his/her will, your love is selfish and your relationship will not last

·       Seek the Inner Master, that Divine Spark of God that dwells within you and learn to be prompted by your godly essence, then you´ll never be unhappy again

·       Remember that clinging to ephemeral things shall always cause pain. The human ego isn´t prepared to accept losses, the spirit knows the eternal is immortal

·       Learn to give freely, especially love, you´ll be loved back a thousand fold

·       Let go and let God and you will find true love and happiness

·       Remember to breathe deeply, as many times as necessary, then you´ll be centered and love flows spontaneously

Warmest Hugs and infinite heavenly blessings,

I LOVE YOU ALL,

Al

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